“Really Love Yourself Like I Love You” or sometimes, “Really Love You Like I Love You.” 

It was created to spark conversation and offer language for expressing deep care toward the people who mean the most to us.

But love, in this context, is not passive.
It does not mean self-abandonment for the sake of attachment. It does not mean accepting harm, abuse, or erasure in the name of loyalty.

RLYLILY is about radical responsibility  to ourselves, to each other, and to the kind of love that includes boundaries, accountability, and growth.

RLYLILY is grit, resilience, and softness. Healing and humanity can be messy but there's love beneath it all.

11% of our profits from 2018 to 2022 went directly to anti-suicide foundations. Now, we’re taking that commitment further by building our own imprint to support the Love Warrior community through anti-suicide, anti-abuse, and inner work content.

After almost 7 years in business, we’ve launched our first book collaboration The Seed explores the intersection of military-to-civilian transition, friendship, and community as tools for survival and healing.

Our goal is to continue creating products that encourage you — to stay, to soften, and to rebuild.

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This is just the beginning.

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